Questions
Everything people ask before they ask the other person
What is a mediator, and who do you work for?
A mediator is a neutral who helps two people reach their own agreement. I work for neither of you, I don't decide anything, and I can't give either of you legal advice.
Is what we say confidential?
Mediation conversations are generally kept private, but the rules vary and some exceptions apply. I'll go over them with you in the first call, before you say anything you'd regret.
Can we meet by video?
Yes. A sibling in another state or a partner who travels can join by video, and the fee is the same.
What's the difference between a summary and an agreement?
A summary lists what you settled and is part of the One session fee. An agreement is a longer written document for your lawyers to read and for you to sign, and it comes with the Agreement package.
What if we can't settle everything?
Many people settle some points and take the rest to a lawyer or a court. The summary shows what's done so that the remaining work is smaller.
How do I book?
Call or write for a free fifteen-minute talk. I speak with each of you separately, then we choose a date for a first session that suits both calendars.
Do you take cases where someone feels unsafe?
I screen each of you privately, and if one of you is afraid of the other, I'll tell you that mediation isn't the right route. I'd rather say so on the first call than after a session.
Not on the list? Ask directly
Call or write, and I'll answer it before you decide anything.
The first call is free and carries no obligation. Sessions are billed at the fee quoted in writing.